Kindness: A Virtue

Kindness is a virtue. It is often characterized as “the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate” (Google Dictionary). Many times, the value of polite speech such as the phrases “How are you?” or ”Nice to meet you” or “Let’s get in touch” are simply forms of kindness. Many may think that these phrases actually have a literal meaning; they would think that these words are only utilized to communicate genuine concern or care. However, this is not the case. Rather than truly meaning these things, people often say them because it is a form of rectitude. Many times, if these words are not spoken, it may come off as rude or even offensive. For example, in a situation such as a job interview, it is obligatory to say these things to leave an above satisfactory impression. If these phrases are not spoken, it could cost one their opportunity. One does not truly and entirely care how the interviewer is feeling, but rather cares about the outcome of the interview. Such phrases also are a form of respect and not literal meaning; typically, in my case, I tend not to greet my friends in such a formal manner. However, if I was being introduced to a relative or someone elder, I would greet them in a more formal manner. This is not because I do not care for my friends, but because this level or formality is not necessary if you have known somebody for a long period of time.